He came to visit me for the first time in 6 months and it was all love.We were supposed to see my parents last week.Immediately we got down to business, he suddenly stopped and asked me if I had a kid before.I was shocked and said no which is true. He then said I have stretch marks on my arms,waist and boobs.
He said he won't lie that it turns him off and he can't marry a wife with stretch marks.I told him had them because I lost so much weight,he said I didn't tell him I was fat before.He also says I deceived him by photoshopping my bikini pictures.
This is a man who said he loves me unconditionally.Please Miss P readers I need help.What can I use to clear my stretch marks..Was I supposed to tell him when we were chatting that I had stretch marks ?Please I don't want to lose this guy
oh dear, i feel your pain. That"s one disadvantage of sex b4 marriage buh why would you Photoshop your pics?
ReplyDeletewell, what is yours is yours. God has a way of taking away from us what we don't need . hold on, keep faith
Truth is!..He never loved you, he never wanted to marry..he just wanted a piece of your flesh and now that same flesh has something that irritates him...I know say na London guy and u no wan lose am but youself for wise up chop am small before sex...lol...Just let him go..No man in his right senses will easily lose the love he had for a lady for mere 'stretch mark'
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DeleteHe isn't worth it. Forget the dude
DeleteDon't mind the dude. He is a joker
DeleteUse lemon juice ,white sugar and olive oil.mix all three and scrub the parts every time you want to take your bath. Should be reduced after one month. Do it for yourself not the unserious guy. He was just after ur bod
Deletehe is a crazy man... am sure you dont want to marry a crazy man..runnnn now that its still early, you man is coming.
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Forget love @ 33 u should know you can't sleep with a man b4 marriage e dne chop u na in make u no get value 4 in eye again 4get him 4get ur age aswell ur own Mann would come n infact d stretchhys would turn him on.
DeleteHmmm you shouldn't have deceived him with photoshop. Try using natural Shea Butter. Yoruba's call it Ori in the local market, mix with vitamin e oil and bio oil. Keep rubbing morning and night and be patient for atleast 3 months. It will reduce it
ReplyDeleteRun for your dear life..ur life will become more miserable if u marry him
ReplyDeleteLeave the guy abeg. Even of you didn't have stretch marks, when you get married and give birth and get fat he will run. As for the marks, try bio oil for very long
ReplyDeleteHe's not yours. Sex so quickly? Hmm.
ReplyDeleteUse Olive oil on it. The original one not igbo made orrive oil oh. Use a cotton wool, soak it and Appley on the area twice a day for 3 months .Also dump that fool
ReplyDeleteHmmm! D guy just wanted to sleep wit u and den came up wit an excuse to leave u,He's not for u,work on d strech marks and get someone of whc u don't need to sleep wit d new person b4 marriage,Ur 33,u've passed d stage of sleeping wit a guy b4 marriage, U'v come to d stage of seeing a serious/responsible guy who is ready to walk u down d aisle.......Emeh! I just read(red) a south korean ship sank some hrs ago having 450 passangers ,wots d whole story?
ReplyDeletethe man is sick！！！ run from him！
ReplyDeleteHe isn't living You because of the stretch marks, he is living because what he bargained for is not what he got. Maybe the photoshopped pictures were so beautiful than the real person, plus some other reasons best known to him.
ReplyDeleteMy dear take heart but be brave. All things worketh out together for the good.....you know the rest. Above all trust, believe and love God and he will do the extra- ordinary for Yu.
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This must be Truth i can bet a million dollar to that, besides why will you photoshop your bikini body. Stretch marks also turns me off esp those skinny ones not to talk of the ones that looks like fat worms and sum might even have body odour. TRY AND LOOK FOR A WAY TO GET RID OF IT.
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Please, please, end that 'relationship'or whatever you're calling it right now! From what I've read , you are desperate, and settling becos of your age.....no offence dear, but its the truth. You dated online for six months, then jumped into bed with him? The foundation is already wring, moreover , I'm sorry to say that guy is no good. So before removing his pants didn't he see the stretch marks? And seriously, stretch marks are his reason for not marrying you? He'll make a horrible husband or even boyfriend, and you will make your whole life miserable just by trying to please him.
ReplyDeletePlease, work on your self esteem. Stretch marks clear with time, you can use shea butter to aid the process. And work on yourself for you, not for any man or woman. Any one who can't accept u the way you are is not good for you. Marriage is not the end of the journey....its just the beginning.
Take care.
What will be urs will always comes around jst be patient koo, as for de stretch marks plzz try and visit any harbel pretitioner dey r gud on dis on dis aspect ko.
ReplyDeleteEwwww so disgusting. Thank God for my spotless, fresh, creamy, beautiful, stretch mark free, sun kissed skin
ReplyDeleteFirst of all, he is not a real man. A real man would fall for what is inside regardless of how the outside looks especially when it is something as small as stretch marks. And even though he doesn't want to be with you, a real man should never ever make any woman feel less of a woman. Honey your stretch marks are your badge of honor. You earned it because of your hard work to get in better shape. I have had stretch marks since I was 6, no I wasn't over weight and I have never been over weight. I hate having stretch marks but growing up I would never give it up for anything. My boyfriend of many years now,loves every single bit of it, why? Because it is what makes me me. Every flaw, every kink and twist and wrinkle on your body is yours, own it! Be proud and find a man who loves you. Finally you started off by saying you are 33, please do not let society push you into thinking you have to get married quick because of age. Take your time and find the person you would be with forever. I would rather be single than be in a meaningless relationship with someone who makes me insecure. Getting married defines nothing, absolutely nothing. Getting married to the right person is what makes the difference. So do not rush or be hard on yourself.
ReplyDeleteTnx luv for dis.u're one motivational speaker
DeleteThis story is lame seriously both the guy and the girl are stupid. Havent he heard of photoshopping before. Whether a real man dont cre abt beauty, one day he will get tired of you. You can be in a relationship for 10 yrs the man can still be pretending he loves you.
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thank you cutemicky...lame story and someone with brains called motivation *sighs*. but what is this world turning into? people dont fear anything. no fear about committing fornication. you sent a bikini picture? a bikini picture to a man...pls if that is not fornication..tell me what it is. if sending bikini picture is not a sin tell me what it is. SIN BEGETS SIN...SO DEAL WITH IT AND STOP CRYING. YOU SHOULD BE THINKING OF WHAT YOU WILL ANSWER GOD AT END OF TIME WITH ALL THIS BIKINI PICTURES YOU SENDING TO MEN ONLINE INSTEAD OF THINKING OF HOW HE HATED UR STRETCH MARKS. BE WISE!
DeleteImagine seeing a girl on the road with beautiful curves and face that gives my automatic hard-on.I toast her and invite her to my crib.I want to examine what i find sexy out there,only to see that she wears spanx and other artificial things to decieve guyz.My interest for her will die intansta.
ReplyDeleteThe guy was just obsessed with what he thought was your body. You don't need that. I have stretch marks too and my husband married me like that and I don't need to be ashamed or hide
ReplyDeleteIs obvious the guy is not for yu and i will go with the guy bcos i dont like stretch marks at all, mehn that shit is irritating..... Be strong and keep searching though, God will never slp on ur case.....
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Jst like anon 10:20 said,iv had stretch marks since I was vry little,n yes I'm very slim, hv neva been fat.d tin is dat man aint worth it,I mean he might even b as urgly as shit! A man who loves u will love ur flaws, ur imperfectns, n u,and wen I say u,I mean d total package.
ReplyDeleteA guy that dumps you for stetchmarks is not worth crying over. He is superficial an if he marries a smoth skinned girl, if she has an accident and her hand or leg is amputated or she is involved in an accident that badly burns her skin and disfigured her he will leave her and that person will most likely commit suicide. I believe IOU are better of without him. I was 30 when I got married and had stetch mark on my arms, I have 3kids and now have trench marks on my belly and my sides and It does not bother.my husband as he is interested more in the KOKO! Ok
ReplyDeleteDump his sorry prick 1st. He is after ur physical body n nt wot u r worth. He doesn't luv u, kindly move on!
ReplyDeleteUse Palmers. Original Palmers cocoa butter cream. Be patient and also eat fruits daily and watch it fade. Leave that maga boy abi man
ReplyDeleteThis man is a complete jerk! he is not only unworthy of having you he is also an unrealistic person. It is not a big deal if he has issues with stretch marks, I mean he is entitled to whatever opinion he holds but the real problem now is his inability to join you in seeking a permanent solution to the problem. What if the stretch marks had come after the marriage(owing to post pregnancy skin wear and tear) would he have divorced you? he is a complete jerk today the issue is stretch marks, tomorrow it will be dark spots, next week it will be ageing marks...get over him already!
ReplyDeleteMadam you are not smart at all. He proposed marriage to you and you accepted, with seeing each other at all. As long as you act desperate, you'll chase men away. I don't blame the man cos we all have things that turn us off.
ReplyDeleteThe problem is not your stretch marks, cos they would fade with time, the problem is your self esteem. What if your stretch marks go and then return after having his baby? You need to work on yourself and stop seeking validation from unserious men.
Stretchmarks is irritating to the eyes.It kills guyz sexual urge just like women who hate guyz without money.If your hubby dont complain to you he complain inside.He will not get attraction for you because of that.He will even get refreshment outside.Dont decieve yourselves ladies.stretchmarks kills mood.
ReplyDeleteYou sound very retarded.
DeleteAND I BELIEVE YOU HAVE ENOUGH MONEY FOR HER TO GET RID OF THE STRETCH MARKS. PLEASE HOW RICH ARE YOU? I PITY YOU BECAUSE THE SAME WAY YOU THINK MEN GET REFRESHMENT OUTSIDE COS OF STRETCH IS THE SAME WAY YOUR WIFE WILL GET REFRESHMENT OUTSIDE WHEN YOU ARE BROKE. I LOVE THE WAY U THINK, JUST BE READY FOR IT.
DeleteWell said.
DeleteYOU SHOWED HIM BIKINI PICTURES AND HE CAME FOR YOUR BODY...SO WHAT IS THE PROBLEM NOW? HE DIDN'T LIKE WHAT YOU WERE MARKETING...SO WHY ARE YOU CRYING NOW? IF YOU HAD CONSIDERED AND JUDGED WHETHER SENDING BIKINI PICTURES TO A MAN WAS GOOD AND RIGHT BEFORE GOD, YOU WONT BE HERE WAILING. SEEK WISDOM!
ReplyDeleteTell them bro.The days of been magas are gone.
DeleteMy dear,don't cry over this issue, pray to God to clear away that spirit that's making you irritating to him. Be a strong woman,don't make him feel ure feeling so bad abt yourself. If he is for you he will stay. That excuse is flimzy one. Tell him this " a woman with a beautiful body is good for a night, but a woman with a beautiful heart is good for a life time" so ask him is it beauty of body he wants or beauty of the heart. That be said, u can also be try clear the stretch mark. Join this bbm channel, I'm in and I've found it very helpful, the lady is good in skincare, she recently discuss intensively on stretchmark. Join the channel and use the tips there C003DADE6. u can contact her as well. All the best!!
ReplyDeleteA man who loves u UNCONDITIONALLY won't wanna dump u bc of some miserable stretch marks...nevertheless lemme give u this tip; change your rubbing oil to PALMER'S SHEAR BUTTER (not the Cocoa butter version of it), it works wonders trust me I kno wat im talking about...do it for u and not for the "kiddo", he ain't worth it...
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